Com Wand Vibrator

The Magic Wand vibrator—a total game-changer—first emerged in the late '60s/early '70s as a sports massage device. But women quickly realized its other amazing capabilities for intense clitoral pleasure. Hitachi played it cool, not officially acknowledging its sex-toy status until the '90s, letting women enjoy it discreetly (and powerfully!).

This was a revolutionary moment, aligning perfectly with the Women's Liberation Movement's focus on female pleasure and empowerment. It became a tool in the fight to close the pleasure gap, and its unique design—that iconic bulbous head—makes it perfect for broad clitoral stimulation (and a whole lot more!). Its intense vibrations are amazing for pleasure, but it's also great for those sore muscles. It’s why we had to create our own: Com.

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Imagine a seriously powerful, seriously satisfying way to explore your pleasure. A wand vibrator, like the iconic Magic Wand or our innovative Com, delivers intense, broad vibrations—perfect for those who crave a deep, rumbly sensation to go beyond the typical buzz of smaller vibrators. These are typically handheld devices with a head designed for focused stimulation of the clitoris and vulva, though you can choose to explore other erogenous zones as well.

With up to 75% of vulva-havers reporting needing clitoral stimulation to orgasm, the wand vibrator is a classic when it comes to ensuring broad-based attention to the clitoris.

Start by applying a generous amount of lubricant to the head (round part of the wand) and the area you plan to stimulate. Then, gently glide it over the zone, experimenting with different pressures, speeds, and angles to find your perfect rhythm. If you’re new to vibrators, start with a lower setting and gradually increase the intensity as desired. Pro tip: hold the wand with a relaxed grip rather than squeezing it tightly. Your hands will thank you!

While many wand vibrators share the cornerstone design of an elongated handle and larger, rounded head, some key differences can significantly impact your experience. Look for features like variable speed settings, easy-to-clean surfaces, and a comfortable weight that fits well in your hand. Some models also offer additional attachments.

The most notable feature for many is the intensity and type of vibration but Dame's Com, for instance, takes this further. Com has an ergonomically curved handle with a flexible neck and a bendy, bulbed head, along with a supremely comfortable, curved handle which helps all body types reach broad clitoral stimulation.

Yes! The wand can travel with a specially designed travel lock. You need to hold the power button off for 3 seconds, then it will stay locked until you unlock it by plugging it in at your destination.

Experiment with different speeds and pressures to discover your unique pleasure points. Try using it during a shower or bath for an extra sensual experience, allowing the water to enhance the sensations (just make sure it’s waterproof!). Explore different angles and positions to see how the vibrations feel in various parts of your body. Communication is key if you’re using it with a partner – sharing what feels good helps create a deeply connected experience. Many people find that using a vibrator with a partner adds a whole new level of intimacy.

After each use, thoroughly clean your wand with soap and warm water or a sex toy cleaner. Com is fully waterproof so don’t worry about submerging it in water. Make sure to let your vibrator dry completely before storing. Do not clean with products containing 100% alcohol, petroleum, or acetone. Do not boil, bake, or clean Com in the dishwasher.

This is a matter of personal preference! The Magic Wand is a classic, known for its powerful vibrations and no-frills approach. Dame’s Com wand takes the classic design and adds a major upgrade—an ergonomically curved handle designed for a supremely comfortable and satisfying experience. Dame has a more intuitive vibration that includes a low (lower than the Magic Wand) setting, which works for people more sensitive to overstimulation.

Consider what matters most to you. If comfort is key and ergonomic design is a priority, then Com might be the better fit for you. But if you want the legendary power of the original, the Magic Wand is a solid choice.